refactor: Rename DMS directory to memory and update references

- Renamed .claude/workflows/cli-templates/prompts/dms/ to memory/
- Updated all path references in update_module_claude.sh
- Updated terminology in INSTALL.md and INSTALL_CN.md
- Changed DMS system references to memory system

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.claude/workflows/cli-templates/prompts/memory/hierarchy-analysis.txt

@@ -1,4 +1,4 @@
-Analyze project structure for DMS hierarchy optimization:
+Analyze project structure for memory hierarchy optimization:
 
 ## Required Analysis:
 1. Assess project complexity and file organization patterns